Brilliant mind twisting provided TO a drunk.

Nobody has the ability to change you. I could look at you every day and call you a porker, but me saying that does not magically make you thin.... If I say it to the point that you believe it, then that's your thoughts changing you. Sure the thought originally belonged to me, but you so chose to listen and believe. You would be the one in the situation changing you.. I would just be the bitch.